“Unlimited choices” usually leads to confusion about what to do. That’s why successful people focus their time, energy and resources by deciding up front who they are, what they aspire to do, and how they aim to impact others.

But do you need a mission or to impact others? Maybe you’re trying not to disturb anything or anyone or get too involved. Just get in, get what you need, then get out.

That’s a short term strategy with long term consequences. Hard times will arrive for you or those you care about. When facing serious challenges, you’ll need clarity or become overwhelmed.

So what’s your personal mission? Why are you here? What impact do you strive to make? Positive, no doubt. But can you be more specific? Have you written it down? Written words and especially definitive statements have the power to align energies, summon opportunities, and compel action.

So here’s what I want you to do – not in theory, but actually. In a notebook or computer write down your top three to five values. Then, explain exactly why these principles matter to you.

Then answer this question. What impact could your life make so that, looking back at the end of it, you’d feel satisfied and content?

Yeah, big question. And I know you’re busy. But days are short, years go quick. But there’s so much you’ll influence in your lifetime. How you consistently handle little things multiplies over time, which is why intention so matters.

We discover ourselves in isolation, but in relationship to others. You’re alive and alert in the world right now. In your family. At your job. With your friends. Have you defined your intentions to learn from and influence others?

Seems strange, but with defined values and a personal mission, you won’t take life so personally. Little problems become creative puzzles and big challenges opportunities to prove how much you care. I hope this helps you. That’s my mission. And until next week, stay Off Balance On Purpose.