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Are you stuck between options, ideas, or positions? Let’s get off the fence and into action.
Life takes place in the transitions, as we’re always moving away from what was and toward what’s next. But if you’re unsure or conflicted, it’s easy to get stuck in between. And if we’re not careful, we can get comfortable with indecision or inaction.
In what respects are you currently “on the fence?” Could be a career or personal decision – whatever comes to mind is likely blocking energy and opportunity while causing you some inner conflict. So, here’s a process to help liberate you from your fence sitting position.
First, what’s the difference? If the options are similar in value, each with upsides and downsides and both aligned to your aims and values, then just pick one and go. The hold up is likely more costly than the potential difference in results or experience.
However, if the consequences or differences are significant, then that also works for you. It’s easier to evaluate options that are remarkably different, along these points of distinction.
1. Value values. What do you most value in people, life experience, and the product of your efforts? Having values tests you to voice and protect them against other demands and attentions. Stand on your side.
2. Engage energy. When you’re on the fence and it matters, one side will likely offer you a different kind of energy. Go with what energizes and excites you.
3. Lean toward learning. If you’re on the fence because you don’t have enough info, you’re still in learning mode. Who do you need to talk to and what do you need to know? Then lean toward the option that will teach you the most.
So stop straddling and decide. Remember risk is relative and newness also brings a fresh perspective on what’s familiar. Until next week, stay Off Balance On Purpose.
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